Irina Sirenko · psychologist · gestalt therapist

When relationships are hard, anxiety won't let go, or it's unclear how to move forward

Individual counseling — when relationships hurt, anxiety won't ease, the past keeps returning, or big life changes leave you without support.

Online and in person · 55 minutes · 8,000 ₽

Psychologist Irina Sirenko

You can begin
without a clear agenda

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Where to start

You don't have to know
what to call it

You don't need a tidy, "correct" reason for coming. You can arrive with a feeling: "something is wrong, but I can't yet say what."

  • "We keep arguing about the same things, and I don't know how to stop it."
  • "I'm always waiting for something bad to happen."
  • "After what happened, I don't feel like I've returned to my old life."
  • "Being close to someone is hard, but being alone feels unbearable too."
  • "On paper everything is fine, but I don't know what I want or where to go next."
  • "It's hard to explain what's going on, but I can't cope the way I used to."

In the first sessions we can put words to what you're going through and decide what to work on.

Reasons people come

Five areas where you might
recognize yourself

01

Relationships, intimacy, and breakups

When a relationship no longer feels like a source of support.

  • ongoing conflict, jealousy, and mistrust;
  • feeling lonely together, fear of closeness or loss;
  • divorce, separation, infidelity;
  • difficulties with boundaries, intimacy, and talking about sex;
  • repeating the same relationship pattern again and again.
02

Anxiety, fear, and low energy

When it's hard to feel calm or settled.

  • persistent anxiety, fears, and phobias;
  • intrusive thoughts and expecting the worst;
  • apathy, fatigue, and loss of interest;
  • anger, irritability, tears, and mood swings;
  • guilt, confusion, and a sense of losing control.
03

Traumatic experience, loss, and crisis

When a difficult event is over but still shapes your life.

  • aftermath of a road accident, assault, or violence;
  • sexual trauma and the effects of sexual violence;
  • loss of someone close and grieving;
  • divorce or a breakup that feels like losing the life you knew;
  • shame, guilt, anger, or feeling unsafe after what you went through;
  • a crisis where old ways of coping no longer work.
04

Relationships with children and parents

When family roles make it hard to see each other and keep boundaries.

  • hurt, anger, or guilt toward parents;
  • control, criticism, and difficulty becoming independent from parents;
  • conflict between parents and adult children or teenagers;
  • pregnancy and parenthood changing relationships and your sense of self;
  • fear of repeating a painful pattern from your own family.
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Self-esteem, identity, and direction in life

When it's hard to rely on yourself and know what you actually want.

  • low self-esteem and dependence on others' opinions;
  • fear of judgment and a sense that "something is wrong with me";
  • loss of identity after major changes;
  • a life or career crisis;
  • living by someone else's script and struggling to choose your own path;
  • outwardly things look fine, but life doesn't feel like yours.
Anxiety, anger, guilt, confusion, or tears are not feelings to push away. In sessions we can listen to what they are telling you and gradually find other ways to be with yourself and with others.
Irina Sirenko in a bright interior

About me

Working with a
trained specialist

I am a psychologist and gestalt therapist. I combine professional training, attention to feelings and bodily responses, and genuine human contact. I receive regular supervision and am in my own therapy.

5,000 hours of professional training
Over 500 hours of personal therapy and supervision
Over 4,000 hours of practice

How I work

Not about fixing you,
but understanding what is going on

In sessions we can explore what lies behind familiar reactions, how past experience affects the present, and what other ways of relating to yourself and others become possible.

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Collaboration

We decide the focus and pace together — without one-size-fits-all formulas or judgment.

02

Body and feelings

Attention to thoughts, emotions, and bodily responses helps you see the situation as a whole.

03

Safety and boundaries

Confidentiality, clear agreements, and respect for your experience.

04

Professional grounding

Graduate training in psychology, regular supervision, continuing education, and my own therapy.

Education and training

Education and
professional development

Higher education, professional retraining, and additional training.

01 Higher education Psychology and additional management education
  • Psychology educator — specialist degree in counseling psychology, Moscow City University of Psychology and Education (MGPPPU), 2014.
  • Management, qualification “Manager” — State Academy of Management named after Sergo Ordzhonikidze, 1996.
02 Training in practical psychology Psychotherapeutic approaches and specialized areas

Understanding psychotherapy

  • “Understanding Psychotherapy,” F. E. Vasilyuk, MGPPPU.

Gestalt therapy and relational gestalt approach

  • “Gestalt Therapist. Specialization in Practical Psychology,” Integrative Institute of Gestalt Training, St. Petersburg, course by E. Petrova.
  • “Relational Gestalt Approach in Psychological Counseling,” Institute of Practical Psychology “Personality in Business,” qualification “Practicing Psychologist, Gestalt Therapist,” 738 hours, 2024.
  • Certification program in clinical psychotherapy, Istituto di Gestalt HCC Italy, course by M. Spagnuolo Lobb.
  • International intensives, Istituto di Gestalt HCC Italy — M. Spagnuolo Lobb.
  • International intensives, Institut Français de Gestalt-Thérapie — J.-M. Robine.
  • International intensives, Istituto Internazionale di Psicopatologia e Psicoterapia della Gestalt — G. Francesetti.
  • International seminars and trainings with J.-M. Robine, M. Spagnuolo Lobb, G. Francesetti, B. Müller, P. Philippson, P. Theodorou, M. van den Heuvel, D. Lomp, J. Roubal, M. Gecele, A. R. Cascio, G. Cannella, E. Conte, M. Mione, V. Rubino, G. Pintus, R. Biasi, B. Crescimanno, P. A. Cavaleri, D. Miller, and others.

Trauma therapy

  • International specialized program “Somatic Process-Oriented Work with Psychological Trauma,” International Somatic Institute, USA, instructor O. I. Troitskaya.
  • “Healing Trauma and the Family System,” J. Ingle, USA.
  • “Contact in Trauma Therapy. Somatic Resonance,” J. Ingle, USA.

Clinical psychology

  • “Fundamentals of Psychopathology in Psychological Practice,” S. Kondur, IIGT.
  • “From Drama to Dialogue: Working with Histrionic Patterns in Gestalt,” course by Rosaria Lisi, Getpoint.
  • “Non-Chemical Addictions,” Giancarlo Pintus, IIGT.
  • “Personality Disorders through the Lens of Attachment Theory,” Jeremy Holmes.
  • “Trauma and Recovery,” course by Judith Herman.

Christian psychology

  • “Christian Anthropology and Psychology,” MGPPPU.
  • “Psychology for the Church,” course by M. S. Filonik.
  • “Fundamentals of Psychopathology” for clergy, psychologists, and healthcare workers, course by A. M. Burno.
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Session format

Individual
counseling

Primary format

Individual sessions for adults

Also Work with adolescents from age 14 is possible — with consent from a parent or legal representative.

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Format Online and in person
Duration 55 minutes
Fee 8,000 ₽

Scope of practice

When a different kind of help is needed

Psychological counseling is not a medical service, does not include diagnosis, and does not replace medical treatment of mental health conditions. If your situation calls for medical or other specialized help, please contact the appropriate professional promptly.

Ongoing violence and immediate danger require physical safety first and contact with emergency or specialized services. This is not a crisis or emergency service.

Before the first session

Questions you can ask
in advance

Do I need to know exactly what to work on beforehand?

No. You can come because things feel hard, even if you cannot yet put them into words. In the first sessions we can clarify what is going on and decide together what to focus on.

What happens at the first session?

You can talk about your situation at your own pace, ask questions, and discuss how we might continue. The first session is also a chance to see whether we are a good fit.

How many sessions will I need?

There is no fixed number of sessions for everyone. It depends on your situation, what you want to focus on, and what we agree together.

Can we meet online?

Yes. Sessions are online or in person. One session lasts 55 minutes and costs 8,000 ₽.

Do you work with adolescents?

Yes. I work individually with adolescents from age 14 — with consent from a parent or legal representative.

First contact

You can start
with one message

You don't need to tell your whole story in detail. It's enough to say that you're considering counseling and share how you'd like me to reach you.

Telegram and Max

I will reply and suggest a time for a first session. After you submit the form, you can open the messenger you selected.

First contact

Get in touch and open Telegram